Watching The Biggest Loser the other night reminded me how fear should definitely not be an underlying motivating force in ones life; at the same time, dedication and discipline can easily tumble into obsession. It's essential to find a comfortable balance, based on moderation. Life can't be all work, with no play; nor can be it no work, and goofing around all day.
Life is simple, we all find ways to make it overly complicated.